Honestly....I have refrained from writing because well we all know that rumors are bound to come up but then this happened. All shit has hit the fan.
I personally think both Jon and Kate are wrong when it comes to this situation. I liked Kate as a person...really - I did and even to a certain point I still do...but...
I don't know...I think I am most irrated about the fact that she didn't go home when the shit hit the fan. Call me old fashion or cut from a different clothe...but my walk with God taught me that the needs of my family come first. Please don't think I am advocating that she "stand by her man" but if it should be something that she, God, and Jon need to deal with. No one else...not Oprah, Rachael Ray, or even Larry King.
This is just my opinion when I say this...Kate (if you do read this) Go home! Stop this tour and this whole nedia thing. Take time out to think about what brought you and Jon together in the first place.
I can't help to think that in all the rumors and controversy that some of it is true and that there is something awhole lot more to it then we will ever know. What do you all think?
(In the next few days I will give my take on the whole Jodi and Kevin interview.)
3 years ago
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Personally, (and I do have experience in the field) I believe with all my heart that Kate has Narcissistic Personality Disorder and should be seen for a psych evaluation as soon as possible.
She has isolated her children from all family and friends and their own personal sense of reality is being badly warped.
It will be very difficult for these children to grow and develop their own careers because of the fame, and it will become extremely difficult for them to form and maintain personal relationships.
Kate is so involved in her own personal fame and ambition that she has completely forgotten about the rights of her children.
I'm afraid that without help the children will be lost, and I'm very serious
oh!! I couldnt have said it better I totally agree with this comment 100%..and agree she should GO HOME and stay with her family ( kids ) try or not try to make her marraige work. Why cant she skype from her home!???? why travel? and as far as the book we know whats in it we saw the show!!!
I would like to stress that this month-long media tour was planned months ago and we all knew this is NOT something that happens on a regular basis. The things that the media has been saying about Kate are absolutely horrible, and should not ALL be believed. I hope you take all of this with a grain of salt. Remember why you enjoyed the show in the first place...I have always appreciated your blog for your thoughts and insight. I hope that you will come and comment on the new site!
http://gosselinfamilyfansite.blogspot.com
Dear Jon & Kate,
I have enjoyed your show since the very beginning.
I really hope that this falls on the eyes of who it is intended for.
I would like to remind the readers that marriage is holy and sacred before God. A covenant between Jon and Kate. To love,honor and cherish, For better or worse, in sickness and in health to death do they part. Jon and Kate took that oath before God. Now it is not just them. God gave the couple interest.A high percentage at that. Eight precious lives. Now it is Jon and Kate,Maddy,Kara,Alexis,Hannah,Aaden,Collin,Leah and Joel.This is the Gossilin family. One member missing and it is an incomplete family.
It grieves my heart as I know firsthand what missing the mark can create. I whole lot of pain and damage to those you love the most.
For Jon and Kate I pray the Lord grant you quiet and solice from your hectic lives. May the Lord grant you both wisdom, strength, power, love and forgiveness for each other and yourselves.
May you both be quick to hear and slow to speak. May the Lord lead you both back to the love and covenant you made with Him. Grace, mercy and peace and healing to each Gossilin member.
No matter what the media may have to imply about the recent issues involving your family rumors. Please know that someday in 10-15 years your children will know the truth about you both.Families talk!Do not think you will hide in thier childhood! There is nothing more sad than watching a parent give an account for why a child was denyed,angry or cheated out the blessings of having both parents together while they were growing up. Both parents involved separtley is not the same as a Godly family unit. It is no blessing to face your grown children about poor decisions or affairs outside of the family. The shame never leaves. The kids never understand!They grow up with anger and resentment that they should never have if you all split. They will not know how to handle it. It will warp them no matter how much you try to give them every opportunity! They need thier God given family. Mom and Dad together.The way God ordained a family! Period. I know this may sound kinda harsh. I have seen it happen time and time again.
I know for me this is it. You all need to be focused on your family. As much as I will miss watching all the family. I will no longer be watching the family decent.You both need to stop the insanity and return to what is most important.The Gossilin family .
I feel they both are at fault. When the difficulties between them started, the public show should have ended, or at least been minimized. Put God first in your marriage, work out the problems and issues, stay closer as a family - refusing to let outside influences steer the path - and stayed focused on the goals they once had before kids! So, Jon's more laid back, Kate's controlling - ALL marriages have those same issues, but not all are defeated. He's young, needs to be validated as a man with his own ideals and in his masculinity, she's more focused on herself, the kids, making $$ for all their future. These are not bad things, just not a great recipe for success if they don't work it together. That's the shame of it.
Why would anybody say it that way, you can easily get your point across in a polite and courteous way. Lets all just get a long.
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KEVIN
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