Changes

I am grateful for all the wonderful people who have visited my blog as well as all of my followers. I have decided to turn my blog in a new direction and start writing (and yes it will get personal and yes it will probably make many mad) about Jon and Kate...their media hoopla and the websites that deal with them.

While I love the show I have been silent for the last 4 or 5 months because I really was at a loss of words about what to say about everything. Well...I decided to be forecoming and give my 2 cents impartial or not. Please stay tuned for the new website.

Thanks!!!

I don't know about any one else but this has been one hell of a week...

Sorry about the long pause since Monday...but I am trying to absorb all the information that has been thrown into the media spotlight this week as well as winding the school year down. But let's begin with the season premiere this past Monday.



I don't know about you but all I can say is....WOW. I feel so sorry for the both of them...especially Jon. (I know...I know...) Your probably looking at the computer and thinking "are you serious?", yes I am. If they ever show the season premiere again (and you and I both know TLC will) look at Jon throughout the show. He looks like it is pure torture for him. I bet it probably does feel like it is prison. Now I want to make it very clear that I think Jon coming out of bars and being "whatever" with that school teacher is despicable and that he should for once stop thinking with his d*ck and more with his heart and mind. I really do feel and think that he is remorseful for what he did (IF he did anything at all) and resentful at what he has become.
Which brings me to Kate...I would say by the look on Kate's face there is so much more to this story that none of us will ever be privy to. My heart does go out to her...because as they put it in Gone with the Wind...hell have no fury like a woman scorned and Kate looked like she had been scorned. I am glad that she was able to admit to Jon that she had been hard on him over the course of their marriage. (But come on now wouldn't you if you had THAT many kids in THAT short of time.) Can I be real honest here for a moment??? And tell me what you think...was Kate more mad at Jon or the tabloids? My best guess...the tabloids and I can't say that I blame her. If my face was plastered all over the grocery store and my kids saw that my heart would break.

Now I have my own opinions about the show that I know will rub some people the wrong way...but I feel I would not be true to myself or my site if I didn't truly say what was on my mind. I felt if Kate was making herself the victim and painted Jon as bad as the Joker villain in the Batman movies. To be pissy because Jon needed a weekend off is just downright egotistical. I understand that the love is gone. I have been in a relationship were that has happened and it is sad when it happens. But to paint your significant other in the worse light possible when you can tell (tell me you guys saw it to) is trying to make things better only puts you in a worse light. I like Kate don't get me wrong...she is a stronger woman then I am to be able to go through this publicly but don't play the martyr role. It will only burn you in the end.

My husband watched the show with me and pointed out something in their interviews that I had not picked up on. He told me that it surprised him how much Kate threw Jon under the bus. He stated "Man...did you notice that Jon did not once talk bad about Kate in his interview and she bashed him in hers." Now my husband could care less about Jon and Kate but was surprised to hear that in the interviews. As for me...maybe I didn't listen as closely as I should but I saw two people who are running parallel to each other.

Now I have one more thought and then I will stop rambling. Jon and Kate use to be clearly in love with each other and while parenting does tend to get in the way of intimacy (and I just don't mean in the bed but being each others best friend too) in a relationship you have to work even harder to keep it going. In my opinion I think Jon and Kate let other things get in the way of it. I hope they will sort through all of it and find their way back to one another. I guess only time will tell and the next episode will show them actually talking to each other.

New season and a whole lot of unanswered questions ...

So tomorrow begins another season of Jon and Kate ... some are excited while others are outraged. Me...I am indifferent. Well...to be brutally honest I am in the middle and kinda don't know where to stand.
While on one hand I understand why a lot of people are upset or rather looking at things in the negative. But I also believe in looking at the bright side of all situations.
I am a fan of Jon and Kate...I am a huge fan of the show but I want just want everyone to take their blinders of Kate off for a minute and look at the situation as a whole.
What I mean is don't get mad because a magazine is shining the G's in a negative light and praise the one's that only do positive ones. For me I think Kate is just as guilty as the others for spilling family stuff. I am not in anyway looking down on Kate...she is a lot stronger than most when it comes to a situation like this. But let's not assume that everything that comes of her mouth is liquid gold. Nor do we need to assume that everything she says is a lie either. I think that the best thing to do is to wait and see what they say.
As far as Kevins and Jodi go...words can not express appalled I was and totally disappointed in the fact that they came out with more innuendos and gossip than "truth". I personally could care less if Kate can bake or not. Nor is it news that she doesn't fold her laundry either. She (Kate) told us she didn't do it in the 3rd season. However I can completely understand if Kate doesn't want to have anything to do with them anymore. Believe me if my family ever did anything like that boy they better hope I never get to them.
And I still think that Kate should have cancelled her media tour. I really don't care if it had been planned since Thanksgiving of last year. With all that's going on I believe that Kate would have gained a whole lot more sympathy if she was shown goin home and activly trying to work on her marriage instead of going from show to show answering questionsand topping it off with a cover story. But that is just my opinion.

Tomorrow should be interesting. What do you all think will happen tomorrow night?

Were do I begin?

Honestly....I have refrained from writing because well we all know that rumors are bound to come up but then this happened. All shit has hit the fan.

I personally think both Jon and Kate are wrong when it comes to this situation. I liked Kate as a person...really - I did and even to a certain point I still do...but...

I don't know...I think I am most irrated about the fact that she didn't go home when the shit hit the fan. Call me old fashion or cut from a different clothe...but my walk with God taught me that the needs of my family come first. Please don't think I am advocating that she "stand by her man" but if it should be something that she, God, and Jon need to deal with. No one else...not Oprah, Rachael Ray, or even Larry King.

This is just my opinion when I say this...Kate (if you do read this) Go home! Stop this tour and this whole nedia thing. Take time out to think about what brought you and Jon together in the first place.

I can't help to think that in all the rumors and controversy that some of it is true and that there is something awhole lot more to it then we will ever know. What do you all think?

(In the next few days I will give my take on the whole Jodi and Kevin interview.)